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Quick Guide to Lucid Dreaming

Updated: May 5

A Journey Into Dream Awareness


If you are reading this article, you probably want to learn more about lucid dreaming and how to use it in your life. Get ready, because in about 15 minutes I will explain one of the most powerful tools to explore the mind and improve your awareness.

In addition, I will soon publish an illustrated book that will make it even easier and more intuitive to learn this practice, with images and detailed explanations to guide you step by step into the world of lucid dreaming. So if you haven't done so yet, go to the home page and sign up for my newsletter to receive advance news of new editorial releases and any discounts only for subscribers. Now let's move on!

Lucid Dreaming

A Lost and Found Knowledge


I don't want to bore you with the history of lucid dreaming, but know that this practice is not new. In many ancient cultures, great attention was paid to dreams, considering them a door to inner knowledge, the divine or even other dimensions of existence.

For me it is definitely one of the keys to understanding our existence!

Today, thanks to scientific research and personal experimentation, lucid dreaming is back in the spotlight, revealing itself as a powerful technique for exploring consciousness.

For years I have been exploring, practicing and experimenting with lucid dreaming as a personal and transformative practice. I use it to work on the deepest parts of my unconscious, to heal internal wounds and deal with difficult emotions such as trauma, disappointments in love or frustrations at work. For me, lucid dreaming is a tool for introspection, but also for creativity: it allows me to explore and understand myself better, to draw freely without limits and to draw inspiration from the infinite possibilities that my subconscious offers. And of course, it also gives me moments of pure fun, where I can experiment without boundaries, live extraordinary adventures and enjoy the beauty of imagination without restrictions.

Are you ready to learn? Here is a quick and effective guide to get you started right away. Below are 10 points to reflect on, study and experiment! If at the end you have questions feel free to comment by going to the bottom of this article! Your feedback is always very important!


1. Train Your Memory with a Dream Journal


Before you can become lucid in dreams, you must improve your dream memory. Many people say they don't dream, well this is not correct, in reality they don't remember doing it. So if you don't remember your dreams, you won't be able to realize you are in a dream! This is why it is necessary to train our dream memory.

How to do?

  • Every morning, as soon as you wake up, write down everything you remember about your dreams in a diary. Even vague details or feelings, whatever.

  • Don't wait too long: memories fade quickly after waking up. So even before you go to pee, before you talk to your partner, write!

  • If you don’t remember anything at first, write down your first impressions as soon as you wake up. Write today I don’t remember anything about my dreams. With practice, you will get better.

Over time, your brain will learn to give more importance to dreams, making them more vivid and detailed.


2. Passion: The Engine of Success


Don't underestimate the role of passion in this practice. Without a real inner drive, it will be difficult to maintain the consistency needed to get results. So feel excited at the idea of ​​going to sleep, and who knows, waking up in magnificent, surreal worlds with fantastic characters (this is what I always hope for before going to sleep!)

  • Ask yourself why you want to have lucid dreams:

    To explore your mind? To overcome fears? For fun? The reasons can be from the deepest to the most superficial. The important thing is to answer honestly!

  • Cultivate curiosity: read, inform yourself, experiment. There are so many books, films and videos that talk about it! (Below I write a list for the more curious who want to start a more in-depth research on this magnificent topic!)

    Don't get discouraged if you don't get results right away.

    Consistency is the key!

Believe me, results come when you least expect them! Don't be hard on yourself, give yourself time, sometimes it can take months and sometimes just one day!


3. Reality Check


Memory is not the only thing that needs to be strengthened. It is very important to awaken our daytime consciousness, our awareness! In practice we need to start getting used to living more in the present! It seems absurd but we practically never do it! Our entire society has been built to project us either into the past or the future, but the present, which is actually the only real time, we often forget or do not give it the attention it deserves. So the reality check is a test that helps you catapult yourself into the present time and distinguish whether you are awake or in a dream.

Do these tests several times a day and your brain will also reproduce them in dreams, making you realize that you are in a dream state.

Here it is important to build the habit of asking yourself if we are living reality or are in a dream!


Here are some examples of Reality Checks, choose the one that suits you best or try them all:


Hold your nose and try to breathe: if you can, you're dreaming.

.Look at the time twice: in dreams time is unstable and the numbers change.

.Look at your hands: in dreams they often appear distorted or with extra fingers.

.Pull your little finger, less in the eye than looking at your hands, in dreams the finger usually grows longer!

.Look at electronic devices such as a watch or phone, in dreams they usually don't work as they should

.Jump: in dreams, sometimes, you float slowly or fly.

.Observe things, move your eyes exploring the environment around you, in dreams we often get fixated on some detail and lose awareness. Moving your gaze helps to change focus often and have more control over what we want to observe.

.Observe things more carefully from near and far, how they are made, touching them!


Do at least 5-10 reality checks a day, especially at unusual times or when something seems "strange" like an accident, out of place sounds, deja vu, meeting people you were thinking about just before, in short take these tests as a game, they can be fun and sometimes really interesting and can really help you rediscover your daily life and break the routine! And that's not a small thing!


4. Intention: The Power of the Mind


Before going to sleep, mentally repeat "Tonight I will realize that I am dreaming".

This method is based on mental programming and can be enhanced with visualizations: imagine yourself realizing that you are dreaming and becoming lucid. Remembering previous dreams and the sensations that you felt. You can help yourself by rereading dreams that you have written.

The more you believe in this possibility, the more effective it will be.

A fundamental aspect is to prepare the bed with care and intention before sleeping. Redo it with love, make it welcoming and, every night, try to change a detail: move an object on the bedside table, change the arrangement of the pillows or try a new position. These small changes interrupt the automatic sleep routine, helping you to be more present in the moment.

Remember: the bed is your temple. Treat it with respect and create a space that promotes rest and awareness!


5. Planning Lucid Dreams


To get the most out of lucid dreaming, it helps to plan what to do once you’re in it.

Do you want to fly?

Do you want to visit a specific place?

Do you want to meet someone or get answers from your mind?

Having a clear and defined goal is essential to maintaining lucidity longer within the dream. Knowing what you want to do helps you stay focused, avoiding losing awareness and waking up too early.

A great exercise is to create a list of experiences you want to have in your lucid dream, anything you can imagine is possible! You might want to fly, explore fantastic places, meet a specific person or even interact with your subconscious.


How to set intention


Choose a goal from your list.

  • Write it down clearly before you go to sleep, for example:

“Tonight, when I become lucid, I want to fly!”

  • Visualize the experience in detail: imagine the sensation of the wind on your skin, the movement of your body in the air, and the freedom of flight.

  • Think about how you might interact with the environment: will you try to glide like a bird? Take flight with a leap?

The more specific you are in your intention, the easier it will be to remember it in the dream and act with lucidity.


6. Nightmares and Lucid Dreaming


Transforming Fear into Opportunity


Nightmares may seem like unpleasant experiences, but through lucid dreaming they transform into powerful opportunities for personal growth. Every fear that emerges in dreams is often a reflection of our subconscious: ignoring or fighting it could only strengthen it.

Dealing with Nightmares with Awareness

If during a nightmare you realize that you are dreaming, do not run away or fight instinctively.

Stop, breathe and try to confront what scares you.

Observe the situation without panic: who or what is threatening you?

Ask the nightmare what it wants to teach you: it often contains profound messages related to forgotten traumas, repressed emotions or unexplored aspects of your psyche.

Transform fear into power: instead of running away, try to hug the fearful creature or talk to it. You will discover that, in most cases, what you fear is just a part of yourself trying to communicate something to you.

Imagine if, in the real world, you shot or attacked every person who scared you: it wouldn’t make sense! The same goes for nightmares. When you realize that every element of the dream is a fragment of your consciousness, you can transform the experience into a happy ending, changing the dream from an escape from danger to an opportunity for understanding and growth.

Nightmares are also perfect opportunities to become lucid quickly! Strong emotion often leads us to recognize that we are dreaming: use it to your advantage and change the course of the narrative!


7. Stabilizing Lucidity: The Secret to Staying in the Dream


One of the major challenges in lucid dreaming is maintaining lucidity without waking up. Often, the excitement of realizing you are dreaming causes you to suddenly wake up, causing you to miss the opportunity to explore the dream.


How to stabilize lucid dreaming?

Stay Calm!


The first thing to do when you realize you're dreaming is to mentally repeat to yourself:

"Stay calm, stay calm."

Emotional control is essential, too much excitement can wake you up, while staying relaxed allows you to maintain lucidity for longer.

Engage Your Senses

Touch the ground, objects, or brush your hands against the walls of the dream to anchor yourself in the scene.

Look at your hands and focus on their details to stay grounded in the dream.

Rub your hands together or spin in place, these movements can help prolong dream stability.

Practice Meditation and Emotional Control While Awake

Training yourself to stay calm in real life, through meditation and stress management, will enhance your ability to maintain lucidity in dreams.

If you learn to observe your emotions without being overwhelmed by them in reality, the same will happen in lucid dreams.

A lucid dream is an extension of your mind. By learning to navigate it, you can also improve your ability to face the real world with greater clarity and control!


8. Le Tecniche per Indurre il Sogno Lucido


There are several techniques to enhance the likelihood of having a lucid dream. Some focus on mental preparation, while others rely on specific wake-up methods or exercises practiced before sleep. Here, you’ll find an in-depth look at one of the most effective techniques, Wake Back To Bed (WBTB), along with other strategies you can try to develop this incredible ability.


Wake Back To Bed (WBTB)

The Wake Back To Bed (WBTB) method leverages the natural sleep cycle to increase the chances of becoming lucid in dreams. It is particularly effective because it targets the deeper REM sleep phases, where dreams are more vivid and realistic.

How Does It Work?

  • Set an alarm for about 4-6 hours after falling asleep.

  • Get out of bed and stay awake for 20-30 minutes, avoiding blue light from screens. You can read a book on lucid dreaming, write in your dream journal, or simply reflect on your intention to become lucid in your next dream.

  • Go back to sleep with a clear intention, mentally repeating:

    "When I dream, I will realize that I am dreaming."

  • Try to fall asleep while maintaining a thread of awareness, perhaps by focusing on a mental image or repeating a mantra.

Why Does It Work?

After waking up, your brain is more active, and your return to REM sleep is quicker. This increases the chances of recognizing that you are dreaming and maintaining lucidity.


MILD (Mnemonic Induction of Lucid Dreams)

The MILD technique, developed by researcher Stephen LaBerge, is based on repeating an intention before falling asleep.

How to Practice It?

  • Before sleeping or after a night-time awakening, repeat a phrase such as:

    "In my next dream, I will realize that I am dreaming."

  • Visualize a recent dream and imagine yourself becoming lucid within it.

  • Try to fall asleep while maintaining focus on your intention.

Why Does It Work?

It strengthens your ability to remember that you are dreaming while experiencing the dream.


WILD (Wake Induced Lucid Dreaming)

This technique allows you to enter a lucid dream directly without losing consciousness, transitioning from wakefulness to a dream in a controlled manner.

How to Practice It?

  • Lie down in a comfortable position and relax completely.

  • Keep your mind awake while your body falls asleep, focusing on hypnagogic imagery (the visions that appear before falling asleep).

  • Avoid moving and ignore physical sensations, you may experience mild paralysis or vibrations, which are signs that you are entering the dream.

  • Visualize a dream environment and try to "step into it" while maintaining awareness.

Why Does It Work?

It allows for highly stable lucid dreams because you remain conscious from the very beginning. However, it requires significant practice.


FILD (Finger Induced Lucid Dreaming)

A lesser-known but highly effective technique, particularly useful for those who wake up during the night.

How to Practice It?

  • Wake up after about 4-6 hours of sleep, as with WBTB.

  • Lie on your side and relax completely.

  • Gently move two fingers (as if pressing piano keys lightly) without forcing it, for about 20-30 seconds.

  • Stop and perform a reality check to see if you’ve entered a dream.

Why Does It Work?

The repetitive movement keeps your mind awake while your body falls asleep, leading directly into a lucid dream.


  1. Lucid Dreaming and the Bardo (Death and Rebirth)


In some spiritual traditions, lucid dreaming is considered a preparation for death. In Tibetan Buddhism, the Bardo is the intermediate state between death and rebirth, where consciousness experiences visions and illusions.

Learning to remain lucid in dreams can help you maintain awareness in transitional states, such as deep meditation, trance, and, according to some beliefs, even the passage between life and death.


Conclusion


Begin Your Dream Journey!

Now you have a practical guide to start your journey into lucid dreaming. The key is consistency, curiosity, and passion.

And soon, my illustrated book will be released! It will guide you step by step with intuitive images and explanations, making lucid dreaming accessible to everyone. In this guide, I’ve kept things concise to give you immediate tools to work with.


AN IMPORTANT CONCEPT TO ALWAYS REMEMBER


Paraphrasing a Buddhist idea:


"The dream world is like a vast ocean, and the dreamer is the sailor. Do not think that becoming lucid will allow you to control every single aspect of the dream. Just as a sailor cannot command the sea, there will always be elements in dreams beyond your control.

Imagine your lucid dream as your ship, you will be able to steer it, set its course, and maintain its stability, but you won’t always be able to predict or tame the waves that rise. The sea, like the dream, is a living force, unpredictable and full of mystery.

This is a fundamental concept to keep in mind, and I’ve placed it here at the end for a reason: only now, with a clearer vision, will you be able to fully grasp it."

🔥 If you want to share your experience, leave a comment below!

And remember… next time you dream, ask yourself: "Am I dreaming?"

Enjoy your dream world!


I sincerely thank my teacher Charlie Morley, whom I had the fortune of meeting a few years ago and of doing an intensive workshop on the practice of lucid dreaming. Obviously, I invite anyone who comes across one of his conferences, courses or books not to miss the opportunity to delve deeper into the subject with him, because he is perhaps the most qualified at the moment on the world scene.

Here is the link to his website: https://www.charliemorley.com/


Bibliography on Lucid Dreaming


Here is a list of books, films, and articles dedicated to lucid dreaming, its scientific exploration, and its philosophical and creative implications. Of course, this is not an exhaustive list, the dream library is much larger. But a quick search on Google will reveal a wealth of studies on the subject!

And don’t forget to leave a comment to share your thoughts on this topic or any suggestions you may have. Your feedback is important!


Books


Classics and Essential Reads

  • Stephen LaBerge – "Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming" (1990) One of the most important books on lucid dreaming, written by the scientist who helped legitimize the academic study of the phenomenon. It includes practical techniques and scientific insights.

  • Paul Tholey & Kaleb Utecht – "Schöpferisch Träumen" (1987, translated as Creative Dreaming) Explores lucid dreaming from a psychological and creative perspective, offering advanced techniques for dream control.

  • Robert Waggoner – "Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self" (2008) A deep dive into the transformative potential of lucid dreaming, focusing on inner development.

  • Keith Hearne – "The Dream Machine" (1990) Keith Hearne was the first to scientifically demonstrate lucid dreaming in 1975. This book explores his research and findings.


Practical Guides and Techniques


  • Charlie Morley – "Lucid Dreaming: A Beginner’s Guide to Becoming Conscious in Your Dreams" (2015) A modern and accessible introduction to lucid dreaming, with practical exercises. Charlie was one of my first teachers, and all his books are great resources for deepening your knowledge of this topic. I highly recommend them!

  • Daniel Love – "Are You Dreaming? Exploring Lucid Dreams: A Comprehensive Guide" (2013) A detailed guide for both beginners and experts, covering scientific explanations and strategies for improving dream lucidity.

  • Dylan Tuccillo, Jared Zeizel, Thomas Peisel – "A Field Guide to Lucid Dreaming" (2013) A light, well-illustrated book that introduces lucid dreaming practically, with stories and tips.


Psychology and Philosophy of Lucid Dreaming


  • Carl Jung – "Man and His Symbols" (1964) While not directly about lucid dreaming, this book explores the symbolic meaning of dreams and their connection to the unconscious.

  • Frederik Van Eeden – "A Study of Dreams" (1913) The first academic text to coin the term "lucid dream."

  • Evan Thompson – "Waking, Dreaming, Being" (2014) Analyzes the relationship between consciousness, dreaming, and Buddhist philosophy.


Films About Lucid Dreaming


Cinema has frequently explored the theme of lucid dreaming and dream realities. Here are some must-watch films:

  • Inception (2010, Christopher Nolan) Probably the most famous movie about lucid dreaming, exploring the concept of dream manipulation and consciousness.

  • Waking Life (2001, Richard Linklater) A philosophical journey through lucid dreams, perception, and reality, with a surreal animation style.

  • Vanilla Sky (2001, Cameron Crowe) A psychological thriller blending dreams, reality, and consciousness manipulation.

  • The Science of Sleep (2006, Michel Gondry) A poetic story that plays with the boundary between dream and reality.

  • Paprika (2006, Satoshi Kon) A visionary anime where technology allows people to enter others' dreams. I love this animation!!!

  • The Cell (2000, Tarsem Singh) A film exploring dream travel as a way to enter the mind of a serial killer.

  • Dreams (1990, Akira Kurosawa) Eight dream sequences inspired by the legendary Japanese director's life.

  • Open Your Eyes (1997, Alejandro Amenábar) The Spanish original that inspired Vanilla Sky, where reality and dream merge in an unsettling way.


Scientific Articles and Studies


  • LaBerge, S. (1985). "Lucid Dreaming." The Journal of Mind and Behavior, One of the first academic studies on lucid dreaming and its applications.

  • Hobson, J. A. (2009). "The neurobiology of consciousness: Lucid dreaming wakes up." International Journal of Dream Research.Examines lucid dreaming from a neurological perspective.

  • Voss, U., Holzmann, R., Tuin, I., & Hobson, J. A. (2009). "Lucid dreaming: a state of consciousness with features of both waking and non-lucid dreaming." Sleep, 32(9), 1191-1200.A scientific analysis demonstrating the unique characteristics of lucid dreaming compared to regular sleep.

  • Schredl, M., & Erlacher, D. (2004). "Lucid dreaming frequency and personality." Consciousness and Cognition, 13(2), 292-309.A study on the relationship between personality and the frequency of lucid dreams.

  • Blagrove, M., & Tucker, M. (1994). "Individual differences in lucid dreaming frequency: Personality and cognitive correlates." Personality and Individual Differences, 16(5), 855-857.Examines factors influencing a person’s predisposition to lucid dreaming.


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